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Friday, 11 October 2013 20:38
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  • Samay Rai
    replied to a thread in Preschoolers

    How should parents behave in front of kids? What kind of misbehaviour should parents avoid? What are the ill effects of misbehaving in front of kids?
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    Parents should try to be role model for their kids with their behaviour. How kids behave depends on what they grasped from their parents. Parents should never yell or shout because then kids will think shouting and yelling is fine and normal. They will also start yelling or shouting. Similarly arguments should be avoided before the kids as they give a bad example.
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  • Samay Rai
    replied to a thread in Schoolgoers

    Hi,

    I stay in Singapore. My son is 8yr old. He studies in a neighbourhood primary school. My husband is a Tamil Brahmin and I am not Brahmin. We have decided that our son would be brought up as a Brahmin too. I have never introduced non vege food to him from birth till now. However, after joining Primary School he seems to have venture out. He is eager to try non vege food. And he did a few times. I have told him that he has to follow his father's caste. I don't not cook non vege food at home at all. How do I make him understand or teach him to refrain from eating non vege food at school? I am in a great dilemma. Pls help. Thanks. Read More...
    Hi,

    Don't worry. Your kid is just 8 years old and he is bound to be influenced by his peers which at this stage is normal. What you must do is to to guide him. He needs to know what is right and what wrong so you must explain him in detail about the customs and other religious aspects so that he is well aware. At this stage, it is easier for you to mould him but he needs to be given a proper explanation to counter his curiosity. I am sure you will find luck.
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  • Samay Rai
    replied to a thread in Planning a Baby

    Like common individuals do celebrities also face difficulties while adopting kids? How long does it take to complete the adoption procedure? What are the drawbacks of private adoptions?
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    Celebrities adopting babies has changed the adoption scenario a lot as now people are more open to adoption. Celebrities have become role model and it is indeed a good sign. Many single celebrities are also not shying away from adoption. Adoption is a lengthy process and this may seem as a deterrent to many couples. But this is due to the fact that certain conditions need to be fulfilled by the adoptive couples. Then the age of the adoptive parent and financial stability is also checked so all this takes few weeks. In all adoption takes few months time to complete all the formalities.
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  • Samay Rai
    replied to a thread in Preschoolers

    Why is it necessary to include dairy products in diet of kids? Which dairy products should be included in diet of kids? What are the ill-effects of overeating dairy products?
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    Dairy products are best source of nutrients such as calcium and vitamin D. As children are in growing stage so dairy products help in producing new cells. Besides these, dairy products also have potassium and proteins which are needed for healthy body. They are a part of balanced diet. Dairy products help to maintain strong bones and teeth and also maintain healthy blood pressure. so it is a must for kids to have dairy products.
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  • Samay Rai
    added a new Review
    5 years ago

     
    Good Playschool:
    Blooming Daffodils is a very good playschool for tiny tots. It helps in their development ...read full review.
  • Samay Rai
    replied to a thread in Married

    Hi

    Its a lengthy story, have patience and don't scold me but try to understand and advice me

    I had love marriage against my parents wishes, he is Hindu and I am Christian, when I was 20 years old , as my family was well educated and financially sound so they were against it, my husband is not educated that much at that time I felt he is prince charming and loved him to the core and married him, after one year had my first daughter, and in-laws are not educated and very strict, but somehow I got adjusted and I got job as software engineer in a MNC, and I start earning, my income is 4 or 5 times more than my husband, I loved him so much.... I compromised and adjusted with him, due to recession from 2009 to 2011 I went to Bangalore to work, every weekend I used to travel back to Hyderabad and in between I used to take leaves during that time my husband had affair with a widow, and i came in may 2011 and became pregnant and i did not had physical relation with him as I was not feeling well, after 6 months i came and stayed with my parents home though he used to visit me everyday he continued his affair with her, he was addicted to her , he used to spend my money, use my car, 24/7 n phone, used to sleep with her everything he used to do, then on march 10th 2012, my daughter was born and on April 4th i went to my husband's place there he physically and mentally abused me and continued his affair and on June 2012 i came back to my mom's place and there was so much hala , finally he broke up with her and he started begging to come home.... till now he is requesting , but i don't want to go to his place i want to take rented place away and stay but he is not agreeing, mean while four months back i met my ex colleague and we became very close and i started loving him and he too but he is married and his wife came to know about us like we are friends and i broke up with him, but i cant forget him, its a torture for me as he is the only one who understood and cared for me, i only talked with him on the phone.... don't know but i am unable to stay without talking to him.... what i have to do Read More...
    Stop being like this!

    Your husband is a useless, spineless loser. Please just dump him and move on with your life. Dont look back upon him at all!
    As far as your colleague is concerned, shame on you! Your husband's affair traumatized you so much, and you went ahead and did the same thing with another poor woman by sleeping with her husband..

    Leave him as well and change your job. Start your life anew. Look for a new "suitable" Life partner instead. not a married man.

    All the best and I hope you are able to take what I said in a positive light and turn your life around for the better.
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  • Samay Rai
    started a thread in New Delhi Parents

    I feel tuitions are a must and here everybody is going to a tuition or a coaching class. Read More...
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  • Samay Rai
    replied to a thread in New Delhi Parents

    I like all the colleges in north campus. They are really a cool place to hang out and also great for studies. Read More...
    I have been to a college in north campus. What I liked most was everything was in the campus, the library, the subject departments and also frequency of U-specials made commuting easy.
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  • Samay Rai
    replied to a thread in Married

    We are married for the past 15 years and enjoying our family, social and sex life. We have been having good sex life and are quite active. During sex we fantasize about 2 couples, one is a friend of my husband & his wife and the other one is my cousin sister & her husband and enjoy a lot.

    I have stopped my periods for the last one year and since then my sex desire has increased very high. I always think about having sex and think a lot about these two men whom we have been fantasizing since long. I really find it difficult to control myself when I face any of them though I know this is not right. I still enjoy sex with my husband.

    It was about 3 months back, my husband was out for 3-4 days on a business tour and I was alone at home. My husband's friend came to our place. His wife also had gone out for 2-3 days to visit some relatives. I asked him to join for dinner which he agreed to. I was really getting excited. After the dinner I used all tricks and made him agree to stay for the night. That night I had multiple rounds of sex with him, first time in my life with anyone other than my husband. Next day I had no guilty feeling and insisted him to spend this night also with me. I enjoyed these 2 nights. But my desire has further gone up and think about having same things repeated with my cousin's husband also again and again.

    I know this is not right but do not know how to handle this. Read More...
    Thats upto you isnt it.. do you think your marriage is going to sustain your cheating? Fantasizing is one thing..but you have actually cheated on your husband and broken your marriage vows.. I do not think that these fantasies are healthy for you because you cant seem to just let them be fantasies.. what to do further depends on the openness of your communication levels with your husband.. If you think that your husband cant accept all this, it is extremely important that you learn to control yourself. try some other fantasies which he can be a part of..

    oh and btw, what do you mean you have stopped your periods? menopause?
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  • Samay Rai
    started a thread in Mumbai Parents

    I get my offs only on Saturdays. Is any event coming up where we can have a rocking time? Read More...
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  • Samay Rai
    replied to a thread in Newborns & Babies

    an infant should be screened for screening otherwise his hearing problem will remain undetected for a long time. How can the babies be screened for hearing problems? Read More...
    Infants learn a great amount during the first months of life even though they will not typically speak their first words until 12 months of age. Identifying hearing loss and providing early intervention improves a child’s language development.Many hospitals have facilities to screen hearing problems in babies. An infant’s hearing ability can be tested.
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