Children misbehave when they have a problem. The problem could be due to some condition such as an illness or issues related to food or sleep. when these conditions are taken care of, then the cases of misbehaviour is reduced. Parents should find out the actual reason for misbehaviour. Many times, incidents in school can be a reason for problem. the kids may be under pressure due to bullying issues and if they fail to communicate this to the parents, the pent up feelings may lead to misbehaviour.
Resolutions are a way to change and go in for the best. These can also help to become a better parent. Parenting resolutions help to change the irritating habits and opt for becoming a good parent. This also helps in strengthening the bond between the child and the parent. A parent who has a habit of spanking or hitting kids can make a resolution of not doing so and gradually he will be able to overcome the habit. This will make the child feel at ease and will also help in better communication as the child will now not be scared. The child will also learn to follow the resolutions in future.
It would easier for the kids to pay more attention and enjoy the subject if we correlate the topics with real world or examples. By doing this s/he would not only understand the bookish words but also follow them in future. It's good to indulge them in sports/activities that teach them collaboration, team work, efforts, hard work and brainstorming along with entertainment. Proactively encourage them to do what they want to. Internet is a great place if utilized effectively, help them to explore new things about their subject on it. By doing this they will learn few extra things which will build confidence when they share it with their friends at school and outside. Read More...
We need to make studying fun for kids. What we need is practical aspect of studying. Teaching about road safety rules on the road is more worthwhile than in the classroom. children will be able to concentrate better and learn quickly.
we got married a year ago and we had done sex so many times but still my wife is not so open with me.
She don't try to touch my *** and neither she try to give me oral sex. when i put her hand on my ***, she put away her hand after a minute but she always say that she like my ***.
i have told her to suck my *** but she denied and said i don't like this and dont ask me again for this.
Also when i try to lick her vagina, she deny and after convincing a lot, she allowed me 2 time in one year.
also she dont like to try different positions, she just do doggy and missionary position.
When i ask about sex, she said she likes it.
i am confused now, how should i enjoy my sexual life. She dont read erotic book and porn movies.
You need to have some patience. Don't ever force anything on your wife. Try to introduce to her different things slowly as she is not so open about sex. Her upbringing may be a reason for this. Most women in India are conservative as they are raised like that so you need to have complete faith in her and give all your love and support. You need to explain that this is a part of a healthy relationship and marriage is not just about sex but of togetherness. If both the partners are comfortable and enjoy doing together, then only the relationship can succeed. Try to find out why she is uncomfortable. she may be having some apprehensions. You need to help her get rid of those apprehensions. Try to be an understanding husband to her and I am sure she will cooperate with you and love you more.
I married for past 3 months. Had a arugument with my wife, here i am putting it for your understanding. Please read and help me and how to proceed further on this situation.
My Nature was, usually i am away from girls, just concentrating on my work because of family commitments, Study, Financial issue, marriage of sisters, etc.. So i never had any personal wordings with girls. I usually said to my mind.. after marriage, i can talk to my wife., and thats how i grown up.
My Wife was frankly speaking lady, she speaks openly and she is casual and fun making girl and i love her very much.
1) In this three months of time, my wife went to her mother's home for 10 days., during Dassara seasons. During her absence i felt like i missed her lot and i was calling her on phone after one week. I asked her to come back.. and finaly that happend after 4 days. So totally i missed her for 10 days. During all pooja time i was with my mom doing poojas without my wife.
2) After coming back to home. a week after her cousin came to home and was with us in home and he was asking marriage treat from my wife. I took him along with my wife and had dinner outside. He is 4 years younger to my wife (BTW.. My age is 33, My wife is 28, cousin is 24 ).
3) My wife was talking freely and making fun with her cousin and i felt was left alone whenever they were talking and that made me to irritate lot. i felt lonely and i feel like she will leave.
4), That night i checked my email, and telephone bill came. I checked my wife's bill to know where and all she is talking. My mom told me, that she is talking to phone many times. Even i know, she talks to her mom, sis, grandma, and cousins and school friends. I asked her whose number is this, you have talked many time. She told, that was her school friend (girl).
5). Then she asked me , are you doubting me.., (now i decided that i can't live with that poor ugly thought of "she will leave me", so i thought of putting stop for my irritating thought that i get whenever my wife talked to other.) So I told her that, i afraid that you will leave me, i told her i am getting these kind of poor thoughts.) Thats why i checked.
6). She asked me how come you think like that ?
7). I told her one more incident, that is, nextday of our marriage wedding day, i saw in your phone's (which i Gifted to her, after our engagement) whatsapp group, i saw somebody sent you a many Boys photo. I thought of asking you, but after taking bath, those photos were got deleted by (someone?)...I dint try to make it big.
After that i was trying NOT CONFUSE OVER THOSE PHOTO, and i was trying to forgot. and focus on my Life with my wife, just thinking about future.
But, whenever somebody talks to my wife freely, i felt irritate. i remember those photo which i saw in her phone. and I felt like my wife was lying to me or Hiding something to me. Thats why i doubted you (i felt like i need to clean my ugly thoughts) and i asked her that question directly.
She started shouting to my mom, that "Aunt your.. son is doubting me.., i cant live with him any more.." she started crying and starting shouting out of room ".. I was telling her not to shout and dont bring this out of room..
9) She started calling her, elder sister, mother and father.
10) She started shouting as "Are you linking me with my cousin ?", she was shouting "Thank God, i dint get pregnant on these 3 months, otherwise you would have doubted that also".
11). I was begging her not to talk to others about this situation, but she made it public to every one on her family and my family side.
12). I told here that i am NOT doubting about your behaviour, but the factors whatever happened surrounding us and my poor thought made me to ask like.. that. But she never listened to my words.
13). Her father, came all the way long journey again and took her to his home.
* In detail, her father had came to my home for inviting us to Diwali celebration and he left on that night, when i was asking my that question. Next morning he reached his home town (nearly 450 Kms ) and again started back immediately after getting call from his daughter (i.e, my wife)
Please clarify what else should i do, to recover from this situation. Read More...
You need to sort this matter out. In newly married couples, some problems do crop up due to misunderstandings and adjustment problems. Going through your case, I feel that the decision taken by your wife was in haste. Though you are at no way in wrong but doubting your wife was a wrong move and instead you should have openly communicated to her. You seem to have some sort of a complex as your wife is outgoing. Try to get over these feelings. The first thing that you need to do is to speak to your wife and try to explain her your fears and your efforts in trying to overcome them.
Dear friends weekly once, i am having sex with new girl friend, she needs more sex in bed, i need a suggestion how to last longer in sex. Read More...
You need to practice Kegel's exercises regularly at least for a month and slowly you will be able to build up your stamina. This is the best and simplest way of improving your sex life. You can learn about this from internet. It is very easy to do and hardly takes any time. It can be done anywhere.
Parents should always try to motivate their children. By saying encouraging words such as never giving up hope and efforts. As said by Manthan, parents should boost the morale, when the kids are down or low. In case of failures, they must say 'don't give up, you can do it'. Such simple words have a profound effect on the kids and they quickly recover from their low phase. Parents must also have faith in their children and this they have to show them by trusting them and saying often that 'I have faith in you'.
Kids should be encouraged to eat healthy from a young age. Starting early will help in forming healthy eating habits. You can do this by making appealing dishes out of healthy foods such as using more of coloured fruits and vegetables. Dark coloured foods such as brightly coloured vegetables and fruits will be liked by kids and they will surely give it a try. so you can make sandwiches using chutney and cucumbers and carrots. Increase the appeal by making funny faces.
I am 19 and getting lot of pimples these days. What should I do to control these pimples? Is there any home remedy? Read More...
Have warm water with lemon juice and honey the first thing in the morning after waking up. It clears the body of the toxins and gives a glow to the skin. For pimples face pack with multani mitti is the best as it absorbs all the oil.
if unknowing of its qualities, someone wears a ring with real gems in it, just as an ornament, will it negatively harm the person wearing it? Read More...
Gems have curative and prophylactic qualities that influence a person's fate. By selecting a particular gemstone on basis of astrological predictions, people can enhance their fortune and protect them from evil planetary influence.So gems do have a significance on a person and it may affect negatively or positively.
Here are some tips of all time best home remedies for Flu
Make a tea mixing:
Bayberry bark – 1 tsp
Grated ginger root – 1 tsp
Cayenne powder – ½ tsp
Boiling water – 1 cup
Let it sit for 20 minutes. Tacoma Boot CampRead More...
Nice tip but could you tell me where do we get Bayberry bark from. I feel that this is a very effective remedy for cold and cough as it has ginger and cayene pepper. Thanks
I am a gujarati, so every morning I eat moong and khakras. I suffer from heavy acidity and take atleast 2 Digenes or Gelusils in a day. I recently went to a nutritionist and she told me that my acidity is caused by the daily intake of moong in my diet. I don’t know whether to believe her. My entire community has moong all the time and not all of them suffer from acidity. Should I give up moong like my nutritionist suggested or is she talking nonsense? What foods cause acidity? Read More...
Try drinking aloe vera juice on an empty stomach, first thing in the morning. It is known for its soothing, anti-acidic properties. Normally, after consuming half a glass of this, you shouldnt experience any acidity at all. This is tried and true
How can I control my chocolate cravings while dieting??? I follow my diet perfectly but I can't stop eat chocolate! That's the only place I go wrong and so my dieting is useless... what can I eat instead of chocolate that will trick my body and taste buds into thinking that I am eating chocolate???? Read More...
whenever you feel like having chocolate, have a spoon of honey or have 2 dates, or have some dry fruits like almonds and walnuts. They will help reduce your cravings.. I know this because like you, im an INSANE chocoholic! My mood goes up if I have chocolate and im at my most dangerous when I havent had chocolate. But it became easier for me to control my cravings once i started work.. So i would suggest that along with the above suggestions, you keep yourself busy and dont let any form of chocolate remain in your house to eat in your weak moments! ALL the BEST!!
i have a lifelong back problem. basically its a weak back and nothing i do will make it completely healthy. it doesnt cause any problems in day to day life but if i exert a lot then back starts hurting a lot and i need to lie down for a few hours with a hot bag. everybody suggests that i should just stay fit and that that is enough to ensure that i dont get a lot of back ache. but i dont want to suffer from it at all.
my ortho doc said that we can do surgery but even then there is no guarantee that my pain will go. he says that i should just take care.
i want to do the surgery.
what do u guys think? what should i do? i want a normal no-pain-ever life! Read More...
I am a Marma physician, researcher in back pain ,fever. I know what is happened on back pain,neck pain. various types of inflammation is the cause of pain.
I work in my family business since 8 months now but my father refuses to give me any more work than answering emails. its as if he doesnt want me to work there only. he has always talked to my younger brother saying things like the family business relies on you so work hard.
im working hard but he just doesnt teach me anything. he just wants to get me married. I dont mind getting married but i really want to help my father in business as well. my mind is as intelligent as his is but how will he know that until he gets a chance!
You have to gradually show your worth by putting in hard work. To be successful you must give in your 100%. sooner your dad will realize your potential and trust you. He will be then able to give your responsibilities.