We are married for the past 15 years and enjoying our family, social and sex life. We have been having good sex life and are quite active. During sex we fantasize about 2 couples, one is a friend of my husband & his wife and the other one is my cousin sister & her husband and enjoy a lot.
I have stopped my periods for the last one year and since then my sex desire has increased very high. I always think about having sex and think a lot about these two men whom we have been fantasizing since long. I really find it difficult to control myself when I face any of them though I know this is not right. I still enjoy sex with my husband.
It was about 3 months back, my husband was out for 3-4 days on a business tour and I was alone at home. My husband's friend came to our place. His wife also had gone out for 2-3 days to visit some relatives. I asked him to join for dinner which he agreed to. I was really getting excited. After the dinner I used all tricks and made him agree to stay for the night. That night I had multiple rounds of sex with him, first time in my life with anyone other than my husband. Next day I had no guilty feeling and insisted him to spend this night also with me. I enjoyed these 2 nights. But my desire has further gone up and think about having same things repeated with my cousin's husband also again and again.
I know this is not right but do not know how to handle this. Read More...
While it is very easy to say that it is wrong and advice you to move away, we know that it is difficult to move away. I feel you should at some time discuss this with your husband as sooner or later he will come to know.
This started quite some time back. Hope things are good with you now.
Hi...I been married with my wife 10 years and I was staying in abroad. During my absence she kept an affair with multiple man because of sexual desire. I Love her a lot but cannot bear any more pain that my wife was having physical affair. I asked her for divorce and get settle the person you can stay with but she pleaded me that she loves me and what she did was only a grave mistake. I found her cheating 2 years and due to my kids i forgive her and continue staying with her but the pain i am going killing me deep inside. I read so many post here and mostly everybody advice to forgive forget and move on but really it is not so easy. Sleeping with your love and feeling comes out that the body which we are loving is already used by her bf's. I want to move on in my life and found a partner who supports me and care for me and understands my situation a lot. Please advice me should I go for my new love and live happily or should i stay with my wife and bear all the pain for entire life.
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Sorry to know your agony. While we can wonder why these things happen with us, we know that adultery happens. As you said, since your wife loves you, you can try to forgive her and lead a happy life. If you think you really can not, convince her and get separated. The choice has to be yours and no one else can tell you that.
I am 32 year MBA graduate and living and working in Australia for last 5 years, I got married in February last year which was arranged marriage. I was not keen & interested in marriage, however following typical Indian culture, my
parents forced me into this marriage saying they would commit suicide and break all relations with me.
Post marriage, the relation between my wife/ in laws and my parents slowly spoiled and my wife started living with her parents and working there, meanwhile I started processing her visa here. There has been regular disputes between
me and my wife since we got married, which led me to contact my in laws every month about her anger, rough speech and behavior. even she has admitted that she looses her control many times.
My in laws did not show any interest to make my wife understand and when I discussed everything to my parents, they said something in front of me and on my back they are different people, both parents are in complete favor of my wife. My parents just focus on salvaging their pride and respect in society, rather showing any concern to my future.
I have been going through this pain for long time, many times I felt to give up this life but did not approach for any reason. I have been doing 3 jobs day and night here and living alone, i have house loan back home and my wife's visa expenses as well along with my routine expenses. My wife has been working for more than a year but she never bothers to support me any way financially or emotionally and always willing to argument without thinking I am at work or not.
I seriously feel cursed in this life from parental and family life happiness, My parents have been dominating towards me for their choices over the years and now my wife following same pattern. My parents are old and alone and don't have anyone to support them, looking at their situation, I always have given up things on them but every time I get heart & end up being stupid person because of my emotions.
My parents have played lot of mind games with me with their dual face which has hurt me the most. Everyday I cry and say sorry to myself for this situation I am in. Because laws every where in world in favor of women, I feel kind of helpless and hopeless in this situation even I suffering.
Please help me what should I do, my situation is very panic and I am very depressed about my future. Read More...
Very sorry to hear your suffering. Marital discords have become very common nowadays. As the children are few and grow up getting literally everything they want, they become insensitive to others. While separation is not a good thing, I feel in your case you will be better off by legally separating from your wife. Don't worry about what your parents think. Talk to your wife and suggest that it is good for both. Start a fresh, peaceful life.
every day i see news of rapes in the papers. its shocking how men have become such animals that they can rape four and nine year old innocents. :mad: Poor girls who are just living their life suddenly have their life turned upside down or are killed after men use them as their personal joyrides. what can we do to create awareness about how wrong it is and how to prevent such things from happening without curtailing the rights of women everywhere. Read More...
It is indeed sad to see that people do not even spare kids. The general attitude of men has deteriorated. While it is important to educate all, it is also important to take some tough measures. Harsh, timely, visible punishment to the guilty will certainly help in increasing thye awareness.
Young ladies please help. Give me a solution,
A month ago, I attended a reception party of my friend's brother. I wore a low waist saree in that function as my female friend told me. She also were in a low waist saree in the function. But during the function boys continuously starred at my navel and waist. Some boys following me. Later the old men too were starring at me. Boys ka toh thik hai lekin I really hot irritated due to the old men. So I felt very bad after that incidence. Actually I am confused what I did is right or wrong?? So please help me Read More...
I don't think you didn't do anything wrong. It is nice that your beauty could attract even old men!
I got married one year ago, my husband likes to suck breasts badly. he tries two time a day. does breastfeeding by husband makes boobs saggy. my left breast hangs lower than my right side. I am too much worried. please reply soon. my only question is about breastfeeding by husband makes your boobs saggy. Read More...
This is very natural part of a husband wife relationship. Have fun.
Hi friends, I am a married man with good wife and family. but am sexually attracted towards my sister in law who is lil older than my wife and is pretty beautiful. so far we have a platonic relation and she likes me as a person very much but not in some other way.
I want to know girls and women views on this.. that in such cases if i make any advances towards making out with her how can i go ahead to know her mind on this. what is the safest way to move ahead. ofcourse i dont want to create a scene if she doesnt agree yet i want to try asking her atleast once. Please help
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There can be no one view on this. Is she married? How will it affect her family? Think of all this before progressing.
my name is mohith 28 years old, 1 year back got married, in d begining our sexx life is really good but now a days she not at all interested in sex if she agree for sex then also she not support for long time (atleast 30 to 45 mins ) but i need more sex for long time and i cant control sometime please tel me wat to do now and how can i get back my sexuall desires???? Read More...
Spice up your lives. Make the activity more fun by trying variety.
You had tantric sex sometime? Apparently it is very sensual, but difficult to learn. So what is it all about? Read More...
nick singh;17009 wrote:
It's a slow form of sex that's said to increase intimacy and create a mind-body connection that can lead to powerful ***.
If that sounds confusing think of it this way - if quickie sex is the sexual equivalent of a takeaway, tantric sex is a Michelin-starred meal, slowly and lovingly prepared and all the more delicious thanks to the wait.
The good news is Tantric sex isn't 'goal oriented', which means you don't have to work hard at learning what to do.
The trick is to take your mind off your *** and instead focus on making foreplay enjoyable and rewarding until you're ready to take it to its natural end.
This is easier said than done of course, so to delay *** Tantric sex experts use a variety of methods including meditative techniques, breath control and massage.
If you want to give it a go, try the following:
1. Start by turning down the lights and shutting out the rest of the world
2. Loosen your body: Tantra is about moving energy through the body, so shake your limbs vigorously to energise and unblock your system before you start'.
3. Stay off the bed: This will trigger the sleep button in your brain, 'means you'll be settling for a quickie romp instead of deep connection and loving sex, which is ultimately what Tantra is all about.'
4. Get comfortable: Try lying down with your partner on the floor and slowly start to touch each other, taking your time to leisurely make your way around their body.
5. Experiment: Try a variety of touches - firm massage, light feathery touches, and gentle stroking. The aim here is to heighten his senses in a slow and intense way so that you're building him to a peak but not taking him all the way and vice versa. Performed in the right way this can prolong sex and your pleasure for hours.
6. Think about breathing: If you find your mind starts to wander, re-focus on your breathing. Inhale as your partner exhales and vice versa - it can help improve the connection between the two of you and keep your mind on what's happening.
7. Don't give up: If you don't last beyond 10 minutes, try again. Tantric sex takes time to get to grips with because we're all used to sex in a western way - this means we expect sex to have an obvious start, middle and end.
With practice you can let go of this idea and enjoy sex without thinking about the conclusion as well as be able to control your body so you can delay climax and increase the strength of your ***.
'Most women breathe more quickly as they feel themselves peaking and tense up trying to bring the *** on, if instead you relax your tummy, and take slow deep breaths into your stomach, the *** will last longer and be more intense.'
If you would like to know more, lemme know. I underwent a workshop under a trained yoga practioner where he helped us learn the tricks and explained the concept (in theory though ).
You had tantric sex sometime? Apparently it is very sensual, but difficult to learn. So what is it all about? Read More...
Vimmi Mehta;16756 wrote:
yes i had done this...its kind of yoga by which we enjoy a lot and for long time .actually am a working married lady .i found one man who knws that .its like poses in kamsutra and am boldly accept in this site that i had done this with him.he looks like some backwrd sage type .i arrange a flat and we r three ladies.....believe me it was awsum seriously
My Sis is 24 years old un married. She is good looking girl. She is wearing always a tight chudy and Pant which shows her shapes correctly. I noticed when many boys and relatives stare at her top and back.Is it Ok? Need ur comments in it. Read More...
Looks like you are attracted more than the others.
I'm 32 years old married male. I'm having sexual relationship with my aunty( chachi) from last 12 years . She is 44 years old now. We both are addicted.
We both complete each other very well. I love ruff kinky sex but my wife is against that. But my aunty is pure submissive lady. What should I do ???? Read More...
Your wife knows? and she is fine with it? Then have fun.