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Aparna Paul
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My in-laws are always finding fault with me. For every small thing, from the way I dress to the my cooking - they keep criticizing me. they even complain about me to our neighbours and family people.
I do everything they say, I dress like they say, I cook with the exact same recipe that my mother-in-law used, but still they just love complaining about me.
Telling my husband is useless as he always takes his parents' side and tells me that i am over-reacting and that it must have been my fault. I am feeling very stressed and am holding my patience and silence but it is getting more and more difficult to listen to all this without snapping back. I dont want to create fights and tensions. Can someone suggest how can i make my unhappiness come across to my husband in a way that he will not blame me and talk to my in-laws to lay off me? Read More...Hi Kiran....i understand your situation because I too faced a similar situation.However, I handled it in my way just as Radha said....
U have to think and apply logic to handle such weird situations.First of all,be brave and sit down to talk to them stating that you are a part of that family and you are trying hard to please them but some adjustments should also be there from their end else things might go to a wrong direction.Tell them frankly whatever you feel...and sort out