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  • Symonkt Thomas
    replied to a thread in Love & Sex

    During sex with my wife, when she do oral sex to me, sometime she told me that she dislike oral sex daily. But i advice him that oral sex is very important part of sex . After give me 30 sec of oral sex, she than angry to me and told me " i dislike it ". 1 year ago we make marry. i dont understand what is the thinking of woman about oral sex. kindly advice me how i solve this problem... Read More...
    Eating healthy and mostly eating fruits might help a little but really if you're self conscious about the smell the best thing to do is stay clean. So shower daily (if possible right before oral sex

    Only if she enjoys it. If u make her do it, she will be unhappy, resentful, and depressed and might even leave u. Many women hate doing that and if she does it even once a week u are lucky. Why not do it the regular way?
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  • Symonkt Thomas
    replied to a thread in Love & Sex

    How to balance sex life and kids? How to improve relationship with spouse after becoming parent? How to resolve issues with sex life after becoming a parent?
    To read the related article, click here. Read More...
    First, get your kids into activities outside the home, sports, martial arts, etc. This way they can make friends and not feel like they need to spend every waking hour with you.

    Second, your kids shouldn't be sleeping in your bed past the age of 5yrs. You need to break your kids of this habit. Have then start sleeping in their own bed, if they cry and moan, try reading them a bedtime story first before you put them to bed.

    Third, you had the kids so, you have to take responsibility for them, meaning... less sex. If you wanted more sex or to enjoy your sex life, then you shouldn't have had kids.
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  • Symonkt Thomas
    replied to a thread in Love & Sex

    Dear friends,


    i have a an average guy with good body, i face some initial problems during sex. I have good d*** lengthy and thick, but i cannot insert as partner is having pain and saying that its big and cant insert..kindly advise whether any lubricant will help? if so suggest names pls.


    regards
    Dev Singh Read More...
    Take your time.

    Enjoy foreplay before penetrating, and for slow and general movements while having sex. If this cannot help, contact a gynaecologist. Both should be totally sexually excited when penetration is done.

    If a baby can come out of that space a *** can definitely fit in. To help though to use a lubricant such as KY gel on the condom and this will help to ease any friction.

    Pain during coitus reasons are1.poor vaginal lubrication 2.force involved in the act3.infection in the genital trac

    Don't be in a rush. Sex the first time shouldn't be teary eyed painful. It should be fun and pleasurable. if it hurts and you are the right one.
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  • Symonkt Thomas
    replied to a thread in Married

    My husband and I are newly married and very happy in general but sex life has problems.

    During sex, my husband finishes very quickly and I don't get an *** or get satisfied. Even using his fingers or oral sex doesn't make me ***. Always it happens that he is just getting me to the brink of my climax and then suddenly he will change or stop what he is doing or just give up. I have tried telling him what I like and what turns me on but it hasnt helped. Poor guy tries so hard but he is feeling very bad about it.

    Another major problem with our sex life, is that his *** cannot stay hard enough to finish the job. He goes soft midway..We've tried different positions etc.

    He tries hard to satisfy me and I am supportive and tell him its okay but I worry that this will ruin our marriage which is so beautiful otherwise. Any ideas what to do? Read More...
    I can see why you're frustrated. Sex is about two people's pleasure. And things are very one-sided right now. This can change.

    Step 1:

    Slow down in bed. Many guys finish quickly due to the fast pace of the sex act. Prolong pleasure by engaging in foreplay for a long time beforehand and then slowly working your way into having sex.

    Talk to him. Don't bring up the fact that you think he is finishing to fast, or that you would like for him to last longer. Instead, tell him some things he could do to really turn you on. Use your hands, mouth, and explore his body, and ask him to do the same to you. Lead him for the first few times, and tell him how much you like it.

    Step 2:

    Consider your mood as well as your partner's. If either of you are not into the sex, this can cause a man to lose an erection. Having sex while in a good mood will prolong the act.

    Step 3:

    Find out about different positions of sex. The sexual techniques involved in about different positions of sex prolong the *** of both the male and female.


    Step 4:

    Many men want to find a way to maintain an erection longer. Being able to keep an erection longer can prolong the enjoyment of having sex for both partners. Spice up your love life by trying some new ways to last longer in the sack.

    If you have a long term problem with keeping an erection, then you may wish to get Viagara from your doctor.
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